Saturday, April 10, 2010
worst-case scenario in any relationship
Intuition...instincts...sixth sense...premonition..They do exist...more out of observations...vibes...experiences and situations one undergoes,time and again...as a bystander too.And we then become accustomed to the possible circumstances and our reactions to them.Predictability sets in...we behave a certain way..in a certain given situation.That remains fine and smooth sailing(almost harboring on boredom cause of its monotony)...till...the 'worst-case scenario' comes up!A relationship,with all its stabilities,its promises,its understandings...suffer a jolt!A tornado like catastrophe...which eradicates,the very hope,faith,trust,mutual faith,love,trust and love...the relationships basks in the glory of.The worst case,pulls out the relationship from its very roots,and leaves a void...so deep...so bitter..so dark...even darkness squirms to peep in.Any amount of semblance,prudence,tolerance,control,maturity,reasonable outlook...wouldn't matter...it just wouldn't...emotions far more strong,fatal,violent and aggressive take over!I have seen...good souls...brave this impossibility...with such unbelievable calmness.Such amazing goodness of heart ,it evokes reverence.I am no different...forgiveness comes in my heart...and I move on.I may take time to gather the pieces of my insides,and it may not be pieced together forever....but I let go..I hold none responsible...I am after all...extremely predictable.Simple.Cause I listen to my conscience...And my heart...And both,are perfectly attuned to thoughts and belief beyond the self.
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I think people have started taking relationships too casually. It's largely a matter of convenience for them. So when going gets tough, they just want to run away from it. That's the whole point. Rest is just an excuse. The way one behaves and take things as is something which defines him/her as a person. And that's what they are loved/hated for.
ReplyDeleteThese days I have seen the commitment lacking from so many relationships. When a relationship is formed based on love, trust, understanding, caring and sharing I think no one or nothing can come in the way. Misunderstandings or fights may be there but they are transient because committed relationships are based on a strong foundation and these minor aberrations go away soon. Its a tragic fact that even soulmates break off due to the selfishness and non-committal attitude of one of the two.
ReplyDeleteShankaracharya had once said " Ka te kanta kaste putra sansaarowa ativa vichitra..... " means what of wife and children ? all can become indifferent. That is the crux of life. You may love your family, but when time comes, even they can ditch you..Dont expect much from anyone..In every relationship there is this "neglect and indifference" and barring a few exceptions, all have their own problems to settle. Remember Birbal's story ? Yes, even a mother can ditch her child. We are living in more selfish world now. This is going to happen often. Yes, when it happens, we feel helpless, nervous, dejected and dismissed. But this life. It teaches us how the world is.
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